The Liberated Lover Method™

Break the cycle of losing yourself to relationships and attracct a love and sex life 100% your terms

My signature high-touch coaching program for singles 🔥

LIBERATE MY LOVE LIFE!
đź’” Break Toxic Patterns
❤️ Design your Ideal Love Life
❤️‍🔥 Attract the Lovers to Live it With

You have your sh*t together and you feel powerful being independent. But...

You crave more intimacy and connection that's on your level.

You're tired of attracting toxic relationships where you end up giving more than you receive.

Dates constantly disappoint and you are thinking: ''am I asking for too much?''

IT'S EXHAUSTING.

... It's not that you don't like your independence– but you would love to share more of yourself and your life.

... And after doing the self development work you are ready for healthy, passionate, REAL love beyond outside expectations or bare minimums.

LET'S LIBERATE YOUR LOVE LIFE ❤️

What if I said I have the proven method for you to...

đź’” Break Break Free from the Old Rules

Uncover and rewrite the beliefs and conditioning holding you back, working deeply with your body and subconscious to create real, lasting change.

❤️ Discover Your Love Life Blueprint

Explore all the possibilities for your sex and love life, so you can design a relationship and intimacy that feel truly authentic and exciting for you.

❤️‍🔥 Confidently Attract the Right Lovers

Connect with the lovers you desire, date with ease, and have fun creating the love life you’ve always wanted!

🔥 I WANT THIS!

Reclaiming Love and Sex

I know why you keep losing yourself in relationships.

You are someone who gets more out of life. You have a thriving career. You do things your way. ''Mainstream'' is not for you.

So... no wonder that conventional sex- and relationship advice is not working for you.

Because of all the taboo and secrecy around love and sex most people don't know about their desires and potential, let alone have the tools to honour them.

It's not that you need to be less of yourself to fit in, it's that you need to be more of what is really you, so that you can attract the relationships that truly fit you and your values.

Inside the Liberated Lover Method™ we work with your unique values and with the wisdom of your body. Forget stuffy mindset: I teach you how to feel confident, secure and attractive for long-lasting transformation.

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Attract healthy relationships, feel confident in balancing life with love, & have the fulfilling intimacy you crave.

The Liberated Lover™

Create a love and sex life that’s exciting, authentic, and 100% on your terms—so you never lose who you are again.

From wasting time on people who don’t fit and ending up in relationships that don’t work for you to confidently creating a love and sex life that feels exciting, aligned, and true to who you are.

I'M READY FOR THIS!

What to expect inside the Liberated Lover™

Somatic Deconditioning

In the first phase of The Liberated Lover Method, you'll dive into deconditioning: the uncovering and releasing of the subconscious patterns that have shaped your love life up until now.

Through transformative, body-based practices, you'll break free from limiting beliefs around self-love, sexuality, and relationships, allowing you to rewrite your thoughts, habits and reality.

Reconnect with your inner truth and intuition, so you can finally claim what you truly desire in love, free from the past, society or ex-partners. This is your foundation for lasting, authentic change.

Erotic Empowerment

Step into a deeper sense of empowerment in your love and sex life. This journey is all about reclaiming your voice, body, and authentic expression.

Develop a confident relationship with your desires and boundaries, allowing you to communicate your needs with ease. Through powerful practices, you'll reconnect with your body, build self-love, and express yourself authentically—both in and out of the bedroom. This is where your erotic self truly begins to evolve, allowing for deeper intimacy and connection in your life.

Love Life Design

Dive into the fundamentals of tantric intimacy and sexuality. You'll learn how to start or deepen your tantric practice, both solo or with a lover, exploring its sexual and spiritual sides.

Along with this, you'll discover your unique erotic blueprint, gaining insight into how you and your partners are wired for sexual compatibility. This phase equips you to create a fulfilling love life that combines deeper intimacy with practical understanding, all designed on your terms.

Confident & Abundant Dating

Step into dating with confidence and clarity. Learn how to attract the right lovers within the relationship structure that truly works for YOU– whether you're interested in monogamy, non-monogamy, or something in between.

With your roadmap for your love life, you confidently know your boundaries, desires, and non-negotiables, so that you set yourself up for compatibility. You'll also get practical tools for dating with ease—so you can enjoy the process without wasting time, and effortlessly draw in the right people.

Singles around the world who transformed their love lives before you:

''The Liberated Lover Method has given me a new lease on life and I am totally here for it.''

Florence (United Kingdom)

"I joined the program to connect to my body, pleasure, my sexuality, and open myself up to calling in a relationship of some sort. I'm truly magnetic to lovers who want to date me everywhere in every day life.''

J (Canada)

''Honestly I can't find the right words to say, I feel free, loved and independent, while also getting closer to people. There's sooo much more possible than the 'mainstream' idea of love.''

P. (the Netherlands)

''I now love being single. I embrace being a powerful lover with standards and I am not settling for less anymore.''

Marleen (the Netherlands)

''I am turned on 24/7 by life right now. I am for real happy- not pretending to be. I feel confident and comfortable in my sexuality and exploring feels so good.''

Rachel (Canada)

''I found a lover that feels so safe and good. I'm in loveeeee as hell! Right when I made the decision a couple of months ago that I want to open up to love.''

Sem (the Netherlands)

"I feel authentic, pure and open. I’m feeling more confident, I now dare to communicate my desires and I feel a deeper connection during intimacy with my new partner."

Erwin (the Netherlands)

"Samenda has created such an accepting community. There is never any judgement. There is love and support all around. Others holding space for you is so powerful. Having different perspectives and just feeling the support given. The community has helped me open up and be more comfortable with figuring out who I am and what I want sexually and in my love life."

Bekah (United States)

"Samenda possesses a rare ability to offer personalized guidance that helps you identify the blocks preventing you from living a heartfelt and genuine life. Her unique approach also positively impacts building relationships and instilling the confidence necessary to cultivate open, valuable, and positive connections."

Richard (United States)
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How the Liberated Lover works

1:1 Deep Dive calls with Samenda

Group coaching calls with a safe, tight-knit community of like-minded singles

Tantra Expertise to start or deepen your tantric practice, solo or with a lover, exploring its transformative sexual and spiritual sides.

No taboo or secrecy–an open space that empowers you to make educated, confident choices in love and sex.

An exclusive, tight-knit community that will support and help you to grow massively!

Body-based strategy for real, long-lasting change of thoughts, habits and reality.

Professionally tailored Breathwork for deep release and transformation

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Is The Liberated Lover Method your next step?

Love Life Clarity Call

Let's hop on a call, answer all your questions and decide if together we can get you to thriving in love & sex on YOUR terms- so that you never have to settle for less anymore!

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Hi friend, I'm Samenda!

Certified Breathwork Practitioner, Somatic Intimacy Coach and trained Tantric professional.


I’m here to give you the perspective I wish I was given when I was single and feeling like there had to be MORE than the one-size-fits-all narrative of love (heteronormative, strictly monogamous, etc).

My mission? To help YOU understand your truth.

Parts of your fulfillment in love may look traditional, parts of that may look wildly slutty and unconventional—who knows?! 

🔥 It’s your love life, your desires, your choices.

I’m not here to fit you into a box—I’m here to guide you to love on your terms.

I’ve helped many singles create a love and sex life that’s exciting, authentic, and 100% on their terms, so they never lose who they are again.

🌹 Ready for love on your terms? Book a call to see if working together is what you need.