The Liberated Lover

Create a love life on your terms and never settle for less again

My signature high-touch coaching program for singles 🔥

LIBERATE MY LOVE LIFE!
đź’” Break Toxic Patterns
❤️ Design your Ideal Love Life
❤️‍🔥 Attract the Lovers to Live it With

You have your sh*t together and you feel powerful being independent. But...

You crave more intimacy and connection that's on your level.

You're tired of attracting toxic relationships where you end up giving more than you receive.

Dates constantly disappoint and you find yourself rejecting basically everyone (where are all the good ones at?!)

IT'S EXHAUSTING.

... It's not that you don't like your independence- but you would love to share more of yourself and your life.

And after doing the self development work you are ready for healthy, passionate, REAL love.

I hear you! As a fellow ambitious human who knows what she wants, who she is and what she's here to do... I know the struggle of the dating game. 

LET'S LIBERATE YOUR LOVE LIFE ❤️

What if I said I have the proven method for you to...

đź’” Break Break Free from the Old Rules

Uncover and rewrite the beliefs and conditioning holding you back, working deeply with your body and subconscious to create real, lasting change.

❤️ Discover Your Love Life Blueprint

Explore all the possibilities for your sex and love life, so you can design a relationship and intimacy that feel truly authentic and exciting for you.

❤️‍🔥 Confidently Attract the Right Lovers

Connect with the lovers you desire, date with ease, and have fun creating the love life you’ve always wanted!

🔥 I WANT THIS!

Reclaiming Love and Sex

I know why you keep losing who you are in relationships.

Listen. You are someone who gets more out of life. You have a thriving career. You do things your way. ''Mainstream'' is not for you.

So... no wonder that conventional sex- and relationship advice is not working for you.

Because of all the taboo and secrecy around love and sex most people don't know about their desires and potential, let alone have the tools to honour them.

It's not that you need to be less of yourself to fit in, it's that you need to be more of what is really you, so that you can attract the relationships that truly fit you and your values.

In the Liberated Lover we work with your unique values and with the wisdom of your body. Forget stuffy mindset: I teach you how to feel confident, secure and attractive for long-lasting transformation.

🔥 SIGN ME UP!

Attract healthy relationships, feel confident in balancing life with love, & have the fulfilling intimacy you crave.

The Liberated Lover™

Create a love and sex life that’s exciting, authentic, and 100% on your terms—so you never lose who you are again.

From wasting time on people who don’t fit and ending up in relationships that don’t work for you to confidently creating a love and sex life that feels exciting, aligned, and true to who you are.

I'M READY FOR THIS!

What past participants have to share...

''The Liberated Lover Method has given me a new lease on life and I am totally here for it.''

Florence (United Kingdom)

"I joined the program to connect to my body, pleasure, my sexuality, and open myself up to calling in a relationship of some sort. I'm truly magnetic to lovers who want to date me everywhere in every day life.''

J (Canada)

''Honestly I can't find the right words to say, I feel free, loved and independent, while also getting closer to people. There's sooo much more possible than the 'mainstream' idea of love.''

P. (the Netherlands)

''I now love being single. I embrace being a powerful lover with standards and I am not settling for less anymore.''

Marleen (the Netherlands)

''I am turned on 24/7 by life right now. I am for real happy- not pretending to be. I feel confident and comfortable in my sexuality and exploring feels so good.''

Rachel (Canada)

''I found a lover that feels so safe and good. I'm in loveeeee as hell! Right when I made the decision a couple of months ago that I want to open up to love.''

Sem (the Netherlands)

"I feel authentic, pure and open. I’m feeling more confident, I now dare to communicate my desires and I feel a deeper connection during intimacy with my new partner."

Evert (the Netherlands)

"Samenda has created such an accepting community. There is never any judgement. There is love and support all around. Others holding space for you is so powerful. Having different perspectives and just feeling the support given. The community has helped me open up and be more comfortable with figuring out who I am and what I want sexually and in my love life."

Bekah (United States)

"Samenda possesses a rare ability to offer personalized guidance that helps you identify the blocks preventing you from living a heartfelt and genuine life. Her unique approach also positively impacts building relationships and instilling the confidence necessary to cultivate open, valuable, and positive connections."

Richard (United States)

Is The Liberated Lover your next step?

Love Life Clarity Call

Let's hop on a call, answer all your questions and decide if together we can get you to thriving in love & sex on YOUR terms- so that you never have to settle for less anymore!

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Hi friend, I'm Samenda!

Certified Breathwork Practitioner, Somatic Intimacy Coach and trained Tantric professional.


I’m here to give you the perspective I wish I was given when I was single and feeling like there had to be MORE than the one-size-fits-all narrative of love (heteronormative, strictly monogamous, etc).

My mission? To help YOU understand your truth.

Parts of your fulfillment in love may look traditional, parts of that may look wildly slutty and unconventional—who knows?! 

🔥 It’s your love life, your desires, your choices.

I’m not here to fit you into a box—I’m here to guide you to love on your terms.

I’ve helped many singles create a love and sex life that’s exciting, authentic, and 100% on their terms, so they never lose who they are again.

🌹 Ready for love on your terms? Book a call to see if working together is what you need.