The Liberated Lover Method

Design your ideal love life and never settle for less again

Intimare's signature 6-month high-touch coaching program for singles 🔥

LIBERATE MY LOVE LIFE!
💔 Break Toxic Patterns
❤️ Design your Ideal Love Life
❤️‍🔥 Attract the Lovers to Live it With

You have your sh*t together and you feel powerful being independent. But...

You crave more intimacy and connection that's on your level.

You're tired of attracting toxic relationships where you end up giving more than you receive.

Dates constantly disappoint and you find yourself rejecting basically everyone (where are all the good ones at?!)

IT'S EXHAUSTING.

... It's not that you don't like your independence- but you would love to share more of yourself and your life.

And after doing the self development work you are ready for healthy, passionate, REAL love.

I hear you! As a fellow ambitious human who knows what she wants, who she is and what she's here to do... I know the struggle of the dating game. 

LET'S LIBERATE YOUR LOVE LIFE ❤️

What if I said I have the proven method for you to...

💔 Break toxic patterns and never settle for less again

  • Feel confident and satisfied in self-love so that you stay true to yourself and your body in love
  • Receive as much as you give
  • Feel connected to your body, your boundaries, your sexuality and your confidence
  • Trust yourself and love from a place of self-love, openness and ease

❤️ Discover and design your ideal love life

  • Discover all the paths to erotic and relational and confidently choose yours
  • Release shame and conditioning
  • Have conscious casual and/or romantic relationships that are fulfilling to you and feel authentic
  • Enjoy a sex life that feels recharging instead of draining

❤️‍🔥 Attract your ideal lovers and relationships

  • Know exactly where to find your people and attract them effortlessly
  • Feel happy, confident and playful in your love life so that you are MAGNETIC to the right people and sexy experiences
  • Experience an abundance of lovers, intimacy and connection 24/7
I WANT THIS!

Reclaiming Love and Sex

I know why you're not living a fulfilling love life. I know what's keeping you in toxic relationships. Because I was there, too.

You are someone who gets more out of life. You have a thriving career. You do things your way. ''Mainstream'' is not for you.

So... no wonder that conventional sex- and relationship advice is not working for you.

Because of all the taboo and secrecy around love and sex most people don't know about their desires and potential, let alone have the tools to honour them.

It's not that you need to be less of yourself to fit in, it's that you need to be more of what is really you, so that you can attract the relationships that truly fit you and your values.

In the Liberated Lover Method we work with your unique values and with the wisdom of your body. Forget stuffy mindset: I teach you how to feel differently. That is what will transform your energy, your patterns and your love life.

🔥 SIGN ME UP!

Attract healthy relationships, feel confident in balancing life with love, & have the fulfilling intimacy you crave.

The Liberated Lover Method

proven method that combines somatic release, erotic empowerment and the law of attraction.

Imagine a love life where you receive as much as you give, stay true to yourself in love, enjoy a sex life that feels recharging: all while effortlessly attracting the ideal lovers right to you.

I'M READY FOR THIS!

What is included?

Somatic deconditioning & trauma-release modules so that you can unlayer what's holding you back in love

Erotic blueprints & relationship education modules so that you can design your ideal love life

Monthly live Breathwork Journeys with our community for your deep release and transformation

6 months of group coaching calls with Samenda

*optional upgrade to VIP for bi-weekly 1:1 calls

Tantra Masterclasses with Samenda and guest experts to keep learning

A community of fellow ambitious, authentic lovers that will help you grow massively!

JOIN US TODAY ❤️

What past participants have to share...

''The Liberated Lover Method has given me a new lease on life and I am totally here for it.''

Florence (United Kingdom)

"I joined the program to connect to my body, pleasure, my sexuality, and open myself up to calling in a relationship of some sort. I'm truly magnetic to lovers everywhere in every day life.''

J (Canada)

''Honestly I can't find the right words to say, I feel free, loved and independent, while also getting closer to people. There's sooo much more possible than the 'mainstream' idea of love.''

P. (the Netherlands)

''I now love being single. I embrace being a powerful lover with standards and I am not settling for less anymore.''

Marleen (the Netherlands)

''I am turned on 24/7 by life right now. I am for real happy- not pretending to be. I feel confident and comfortable in my sexuality and exploring feels so good.''

Rachel (Canada)

''I found a lover that feels so safe and good. I'm in loveeeee as hell! Right when I made the decision a couple of months ago that I want to open up to love.''

Sem (the Netherlands)

"I feel authentic, pure and open. I’m feeling more confident, I now dare to communicate my desires and I feel a deeper connection during intimacy."

Evert (the Netherlands)

"Samenda has created such an accepting community. There is never any judgement. There is love and support all around. Others holding space for you is so powerful. Having different perspectives and just feeling the support given. The community has helped me open up and be more comfortable with figuring out who I am and what I want sexually and in my love life."

Bekah (United States)

"Samenda possesses a rare ability to offer personalized guidance that helps you identify the blocks preventing you from living a heartfelt and genuine life. Her unique approach also positively impacts building relationships and instilling the confidence necessary to cultivate open, valuable, and positive connections."

Richard (United States)

What to expect inside the Liberated Lover Method 

Module 1: Limiting Beliefs

When it comes to self-love, sex(uality) and relationships, we tend to play small. Let's get to the root of the limiting beliefs that are blocking you in your love life, rewrite them, and anchor a new feeling in your body.

Module 2: Sexual Deconditioning

Nothing has conditioning around it as thick as our sexuality. It is the most controversial part of us humans; conditioned by society, parents, and peers like nothing else. Unravel the subconscious layers of beliefs around selflove, sex and relationships.

Module 3: Intuition and Inner Truth

Connect to your intuition to unlock what it is that you REALLY want in your love life, beyond that limits and conditioning you released.

Module 4: Reclaiming your Voice

Free your voice and speak your truth so that you can communicate what you need, like, dislike, and stand up for yourself in (inevitable) conflict or resistance in love.

Module 5: Reclaiming your Body

Reclaiming your body means reclaiming the relationship you have with it, this beautiful, intimate connection you have with yourself that is uniquely yours. Enhance your self-love, confidence, and body awareness by stripping away the layers of shame, trauma and pain.

Module 6: Reclaiming your Expression

Authentic expression is a reflection of your inner world, and it is KEY when it comes to sharing yourself with other people: whether it be through intimacy, communication, or any other form of connection. People are not mind readers. The more you express yourself, the easier it is to connect with others!

Module 7: Erotic Blueprints

Many people who have no idea what they want or what they can do, erotically speaking. Yet, it is one of the most powerful parts of our human lives. Understand how you, and your lovers/partners, are wired erotically, how to bridge differences and set yourself up for sexual compatibility.

Module 8: Relationship Structures

Let's get clear on in what structure you want to love on other humans. AKA: relationship structures. There are many structures to consider, and it goes way beyond monogamy or non-monogamy.

Module 9: Hacking the Law of Attraction

Anchor in choices, steps and a blueprint for your new love life, so that you create your roadmap toward lasting, fulfilling relationships that truly fit you. Attract the right lovers to you, if you haven't done so already in the first few weeks (it happens all the time to students!).

The Liberated Lover Method is currently closed for enrollment

Want to be the first to know when we open our doors?

  • Be the first to know and don't miss out when we open our doors 3 times a year, 4 days at a time
  • Become a part of our tight-knit, exclusive community and transform your love life with people who get it
  • Get exclusive updates and priority access to enrollment 🥂

We can't wait to welcome you 😘

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the Liberated Lover Method

Frequently Asked Questions

Hi friend, I'm Samenda!

Certified Breathwork Practitioner, Somatic Intimacy Coach and trained Tantric professional.


It wasn't so long ago that I was where you are now. I know what it's like to crave lovers who get you, feeling like there is MORE to love than following the narrative that is set out by society.

Over the years, I have invested over $35k in self-development, only to find that most of the coaching out there avoids the topic of sexuality and intimacy. 

When I started my private practice, there was always a theme in my 1:1 sessions and why clients came to see me: they wanted to work on their sexuality and intimate life. 

Over the years, I have trained with powerful leaders in the industry like Wim Hof, Tim Morrison, and Sah D'Simone, increasingly feeling called to bridge self-development and sexuality.

I founded Intimare as a holistic approach to intimacy coaching, filling the gap that I experienced necessary.

While continuing to work with clients on self-love, sexuality and dating, I trained in tantra and erotic bodywork. Through my own tantric practices, as well as bodywork sessions with clients, I got to experience the diversity of human sexuality and relational fulfillment. 

And that is how the Liberated Lover Method was born: a thriving community that brings somatics, erotic empowerment, and attraction energetics together so that you are empowered to design a love life that truly fits you and to attract the right lovers to live it with. 

There is so much more out there for you, I promise!
We can't wait to welcome you and see you THRIVE 😘

The Liberated Lover Method is currently closed for enrollment

Want to be the first to know when we open our doors?

  • Be the first to know and don't miss out when we open our doors 3 times a year, 4 days at a time
  • Become a part of our tight-knit, exclusive community and transform your love life with people who get it
  • Get exclusive updates and priority access to enrollment 🥂

We can't wait to welcome you 😘

Get on the Waitlist

& join us with priority access

the Liberated Lover Method