I'm Samenda.

I know what it feels like to lose yourself for love.

Only a couple of years ago, I was right where you are.

Just like you, I craved true connection and intimacy—without having to sacrifice parts of myself in the process.

Growing up, I struggled with feeling alone, ''different'', and craving deeper bonds with those around me. As a kid, I never quite understood the narrative of choosing between boys and girls, limiting yourself to just one person or taboo around sexuality.

My first relationship was with a great, safe partner, but lots of it was ''how it's supposed to be'', not what I really wanted. Eventually, we became so codependent that we were no longer healthy for each other.

Then, I got into an abusive relationship where I completely lost myself—emotionally, physically, and sexually. I know all too well what it’s like to feel trapped in unhealthy love.

My third relationship ticked the boxes of being a spiritual, conscious relationship, but it still felt like something was missing. That there was MORE.

I knew something had to change, so I went searching for a solution.

That’s when I discovered Breathwork. It was through Breathwork that I began healing from my past and reconnecting with my body, finding my way back to my intuition, and embraced my authentic expression as an ambitious, playful, adventurous woman.

I finally opened my heart, and started to understand love, affection, and connection on a deeply spiritual level– beyond the ''should's'' and ''supposed to's''– on my terms.

Knowing all the things I didn't want, I was ready to discover what love does mean for me.

I am here to give you the perspective I wish I was given.

The journey of connecting to my sexuality and desires in relationships was tough, but incredibly liberating and has opened me up in ways I never imagined.

I embraced my bisexuality and discovered my non-monogamous, sexually explorative nature. I got into Tantra, BDSM, and polyamory– and felt at home.

Now, I feel confident in what love means to me, beyond societal expectations, my past, or my upbringing– and sharing it with the people right for me.

❤️ Today, I am proud to offer singles like you the help I needed all those years ago– from a place of personal experience and professional expertise. 

My mission? To help YOU understand your truth in love. I'm so glad you're here. X